Calling in your Soul Family
What you seek, is seeking you.
- Rumi
We are energetically connected to our soul family; a group of souls who are actually an aspect of your own soul and that’s why the connection is instant and resonates on such a deep and profound level. We trust that our soulmates will show up in this lifetime at the perfect time to help us on our journey. Your soul family can show up in many forms whether that’s a romantic partner, friend, family member, business partner or even kind stranger you meet randomly in a bar, even though nothing is random in the Universe - everything is perfect and Divinely timed.
So many of us are searching for our soulmates or waiting for them to find us! However we must ask ourselves, how can we expect our soulmate to find us when, often, we’re hiding from our ourselves and masking our Truth. When you honour everything that makes you You and invest in your authenticity, you light the pathway for your soulmate!
Sometimes it feels like we’re blindly searching for those instant connections, for that one person or group that just ‘get’ us and being with them makes life easy. We imagine that when we find our soulmate life will flow more gracefully, that we’ll feel held and supported like never before and everything will just click into place. We lose sight of the fact that as much as we’re searching for our soulmates, they’re searching for us too. They too are hoping for the day they meet their dream partner, a supportive community, a fulfilling career with the perfect business partner and friends that they feel connected to. We are all seeking this feeling of oneness and sense of belonging.
How do you know when you’re ready to meet your soulmate or soul tribe? Firstly, you will feel a deep inner knowing that it’s time to call them in. This is the energetic pull between you and a member of your soul family. Maybe they’re calling you in simultaneously and that may show up in your life as an invitation to a party, a spark of inspiration, or desire to take a class, join a group or download an app! However the call arrives, trust your intuition and lead with your heart.
Secondly, check in with yourself. Are you living the life you want? Are you seeking true connection or are you seeking an escape? Are you doing what you love and living authentically? Do you know how to sand in your power? Or, are you hoping for a quick fix and shortcut to happiness? I believe soulmates show up in each others lives to guide us on our path, clarify our sacred purpose and help us accept ourselves through unconditional love. I believe this because I’ve met some of my soulmates along the way and they steered me in the direction of my purpose, helped me love myself more fully and ultimately lead me on my Divine path.
The path to our soul family begins and ends with us living our Truth. When we invest in our passions, the relationships and activities that fill our cup, we honour the essence of all that we are. If our soul family are really branches of our own soul then by living authentically we’re following the directions back to them.
Don’t mask your Light by hanging out with friends that make you feel like crap, date the person you’ll never feel good enough for, or stay in the job that’s sucking the life out of you. Don’t say yes when you really mean no and definitely don’t dim your Light. You didn’t come here to hide or fit in.
To find your people ask yourself, what lights my soul on fire? And then, go for it! Design your life so that it honours your authentic being and illuminate the path for your soul family.